Saturday, March 29, 2008

Friends are a Gift

Friendship isn't just about two people who find a special bond,
It's about the mutual respect and dedication
That makes a friendship strong,
It's what's at the heart of every friendship that matters;
Such as admiration, loyalty, love and laughter...
We exhibit all those things and we'll always be friends, you and me...

Love is Happiness, but Sad Too...

Five rules to be happy:

  1. Free your heart from hatred.
  2. Free your mind from worries.
  3. Live simply.
  4. Give more.
  5. Expect less.

What the heart gives away is never gone...it is kept in the hearts of others. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risks. Secure a special place in your heart. A certain place only you can enter. For there will come a time when you need to find yourself and only your heart will show you the way.

The measure of love is when you love without measure. In life there are very rare chances that you'll meet the person you love and loves you in return. So once you have it don't ever let go, the chance might never come your way again.

People are made to be loved and things are made to be used. That's why there's so much chaos in the world...people are being used and things are being loved. You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages of life.

Every commitment is a choice. Non-choosers and half-choosers are a puzzle to themselves and to others. They live in the immature condition of wanting to "play everything by ear."

Every once in a while ask yourself the question: If money weren't a consideration, what would I like to be doing?

It's better to lose your pride to the one you love, than to lose the one you love because of pride. We spend so much time looking for the right person to love or finding fault with those we already love, when instead we should be perfecting the love we give.

When you truly care for someone, you don't look for faults, you don't look for answers, you don't look for mistakes. Instead, you fight the mistakes, excuses.

People Come into Your Life for a Reason...

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a life time.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have experessed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidence and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a god-send and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvinient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die, sometimes they walk away.
Sometime they act up and force you to take a stand
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled , their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into our life for a season , because our turn has come to share,
grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make us laugh,
They may teach us something we have never done.
They usually give us an unbelievable amount of joy
Believe it, it is real, but only for a season.
Life time relationships teach us lifetime leassons,
Things we must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Our job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what we have learned.
To use in all other relationships and areas of our life.
It is said that love is blind, but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime...